Showing posts with label follow your heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label follow your heart. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Cacao y Agua


A large part of the attraction for us to reside at this lake is to work with and learn from the cacao shaman, his partner and the team of cacao wizards. 

We have been attending two to three cacao healing ceremonies at the school each week. There can be anywhere from a dozen to upwards of forty or fifty people sitting and reclining on small cushions, scattered around the porch and gardens overlooking the lake and volcanoes. Each one sips cacao and delves into the depths of their hearts for healing and wisdom. At their own pace of course. 

We have also really been enjoying assisting in the bagging of the liquid cacao paste. It used to be a once weekly event at the school of cacao's on-sight packing facility, but the demand has grown so great in recent months that it's now twice weekly. The beans are peeled by hand by a team of local Mayan women who are paid by the pound prior to peeling and quality control thinning. Sounds pretty fair! Next, some of the beans are packed whole. Others are ground into a thick paste by another team of local Mayan people.  A team of six of us scoops several hundred pounds of cacao paste into bags. The bags are precisely weighed into one pound blocks. The bags are sealed and then laid out and pressed flat with wooden boards until they harden overnight. Then they are shipped worldwide. All of our hard work and love comes sealed inside at no extra charge.


At the same location, one morning each week, there is an acupuncture clinic. I just finished my second session. Acupuncture is so powerful and can be quite uncomfortable...but WOW IS IT EFFECTIVE. I highly recommend it to anyone and everyone who needs some assistance with physical, emotional or energetic healing. This particular location is very serene. A gentle breeze flows through a covered porch with spots of sunshine peeking through the foliage. Something about the mixture of the neighborhood chickens happily clucking and the native tropical birdsong is so soothing. The woman across the bamboo fence makes a constant patty cake sound as she makes what sounds like hundreds of tortillas. The sounds of chanting, drumming and singing bowls creates a background sound for wellness. Tears mixed with huge grins create a feeling of wellness spreading from my head to my toes. 


The word tears leads me into my next topic which is water. 
We lucky individuals who have lived our lives solely in first world, developed and sanitary environments have no idea what it's truly like to go without water for extended periods of time. Even if the power is out or a water main breaks...darn that inconvenience...Bottled water to the rescue!!! This is not the case everywhere. 

We have gotten an up close and personal taste of what it's like to try to live a week of life in rural Guatemala with a very limited water supply.  For nearly a week, the block we were living on, as well as other areas of the community were without water. On occasion, a hose bib across the yard would yield a bit of the liquid gold. We each had one shower this week, courtesy of hostels in town where we paid to get clean. We hauled many pails of lake water up the hill to our little casa. We needed some for things like flushing modern toilets (which could and should be composting) and for heating up (using natural gas in a bottle that was piped out of the earth) to use for dish washing, hand washing and cleaning.  

One afternoon we were sitting in the house in a women's circle. Two little Mayan girls came to the front door, so I went to say hello. They asked for water to wash their hands and faces after what they told me was a lunch of frijoles, or black beans. The little one, who looked about two years old, had a full beard of them. They normally come through the gate and help themselves to the hose bib. But today I brought them a small wash basin and a bar of soap since the pipes were dry. They lit up like I did as a kiddo on Christmas morning. They more or less had head-to-toe baths, including some hair "washing" right then and there. They included me in the celebration by splashing me with plenty of soapy bean water. They then asked me to climb up and pick them some limes from the big citrus tree. So I shook a branch and down two came. I offered them a snack and they were so excited. I finally told them I had to get back into the house. They said ok see you very soon. About 20 minutes later they came back to the house with three friends all toting empty water jugs. I explained that the only reason I could share water with them is that we had to haul it up from the lake in buckets. They soldiered on together in search of some agua. 


We are still spoiled even here to be able to afford to purchase a large blue bottle of drinking water for about $3. That may not always be an option though. We must take any steps possible to conserve and clean up our planet's waters. It's all one big connected system and we each play a role. Like one little drop in a vast ocean of consciousness. 

In closing, I would like to paint a picture of something that I witnessed that has stuck with me for days. We took a tiny taxi to the neighboring village to visit an organic permaculture inspired farm. We arrived midway up a mountain, where the proper road ended. We continued on foot from there to a bridge. I stopped and stared in complete awe of the Mayan women of all ages, from small girls to elegantly aged abuelas, in their colorful garments. Some were on their knees, washing clothing in the fresh mountain stream that came pouring from the jungle-covered mountain peaks. Others were hauling baskets of laundry piled high on top of their heads. I smiled and waved and they all stopped and gave a big grin and a Buenos Dias!  They were so happy. To know nothing different than washing their clothing by hand in a fresh river in the beautiful sunshine was seemingly perfect. I wanted to join them and take some photos, but out of respect, I chose to just smile and carry on up the steep, washed out mountain trail.

Tuesday, March 04, 2014

In Remembrance

A special man left our world last week. My father-in-law passed away at home in northern Alberta. I only knew him for a year, but he left a very big impression on me, and hundreds of others, too.  He was full of wisdom, humor and love, and lived to share these with others. 

I remember the first time I met him. It was just over a year ago. It was cold and snowy, but his big mustached smile and hearty bear hug lightened my soul. He was so excited to meet me. I felt like a celebrity during that visit. And most visits thereafter. What a warm welcome.


Luckily, I was also warned about his mean cribbage skills, and I practiced up all of last winter. I was no match for him. But I had fun trying. When we moved up north last spring, I spent many, many hours challenging his mighty crib skills. Mostly to no avail. I think I won a mere half-dozen games in those 6 months. But who's counting?

I often cooked meals in his kitchen. He would sit at the counter, playing cards vs. his iPad while I chopped and stirred.  He was always excited to be my taster when I made up new recipes.

On numerous sunny afternoons, we stood on the deck and reflected on life's challenges and blessings. His perspectives were always appreciated, though not always agreed upon. His advice to enjoy every day and not work like a dog until you die were dually noted.

One morning, I sat at his kitchen table writing one of these blog posts. He asked what I was working on and I told him about my blog. He asked me to show him how to read it, so I offered to subscribe the blog feed to his email. Two days later I asked him if he read any of the blog posts. "I read every one of them", he said. "You have some very interesting ideas. Keep it up." That was very encouraging.


The day we told him that we would be departing northern Alberta and heading for the West Coast was a sad day for him. We knew he loved having us just outside his back door. 

Life pulls us all in different directions, yet we keep a piece of each other in our hearts. We both had a feeling that we may not get to visit him again on that autumn day when we drove the moHo away from the farm toward the coast. Life was calling us to somewhere else, and we answered.
We are so thankful for the gift of quality time with family and friends. How many families have feuds that have been dragging on for months or even years? How many arguments go unsettled, then suddenly someone passes away?  Is there an axe wedged in your family tree that is preventing members from getting along? Is it about something trivial? Have you forgotten why you are even angry with each other?  Ask yourselves if it's worth the ego battles, or if loving each other outweighs being right. Life is short. It's been said a million times. Because it's true. If your family nemesis was gone tomorrow, would you have regrets?


At his remembrance service, we were escorted into a community hall where hundreds of faithful friends and community members came to show their gratitude and respect. I was amazed. I don't even think I know that many people, let alone be blessed enough to have that many show up at a memorial service. That says a lot about a person's life. When you are gone, what kind of legend will you leave behind? When you leave the world, will it be a better place than when you checked in? That is my hope for all of us.



Wednesday, January 22, 2014

For Sale: Tiny Home on Wheels


It's true. We have listed the old girl for sale. She's been a wonderfully fun and cozy home. We are being called to new frontiers and we feel she would be better off with a new owner who can keep giving her the TLC she deserves. Any takers?

We recently decided on "settling" (take that with a grain of salt) in a small town in central Vancouver Island. It was a 6-week-long decision...


It started when we went to an awesome vegetarian cafe for lunch with a friend. A woman in the building was offering free mini-massages. We happily accepted and soon had appointments for the real deal. At our massage appointment, she proceeded to pass on a brochure to us. It was for a lovely property that was available for a work-trade position. A retired fellow, John, with two old hounds, was seeking a caretaker for his land and animals while he travels to do some humanitarian work. 


We called up John and went to have a visit. A beautiful forested property with numerous fruit trees and berry patches of all kinds was nestled around a little cabin and a workshop with a small studio loft apartment above (about triple the size of our moHo). We really clicked and had a lot of great conversations. We discovered that he's a former social worker, a vegetarian and practices yoga and meditation. We told him we would consider the position and do some more exploring. We had been applying for numerous work positions, but nothing had panned out so far. We felt less and less hopeful about how to make an income there.


As the weeks went on, we strongly considered moving to Victoria. We had been offered a cute apartment there by some kind friends and the city work force seemed to be flourishing. We emailed John and told him we were sorry but the city seemed like a better option. He had been kindly and persistently emailing us for several weeks, sending us job listings and community info to boost his "sales pitch" for living at his retreat in the woods. He said he understood and wished us well. Then he proceeded to keep emailing us local job postings, as if he knew something we didn't...


It wasn't until we went into the mountains of interior BC last weekend to fetch our old pickup truck that we realized what we truly wanted. Our friends had driven our truck full of various sports gear, spare tires and a rototiller from northern Alberta to central BC. They also piled in the bounty of food that they had grown and worked for on a completely off-grid farm all last season. So it was a win-win. 

We hopped on the ferry on foot, rented a small car on the mainland and drove up, up, up into the wintery mountains to a lovely ranch with several log cabins and outhouses. Sheep, goats, horses, donkeys and chickens roamed the property. We stayed for the night in a cozy wood-heated cabin. We shared some great conversation with our friends and they told us how much they love living on farms, helping out and learning valuable skills. They asked what our plans were and we explained our options and our reservation to accepting the work-exchange because of the shortage of work opportunities in the rural areas. After all, we are certain that we aren't the only young couple to flee the harsh Alberta winter to seek greener (literally) pastures. The job market is very tight on the island (which we had been warned about many times). Our friends laughed and said something like "you'd be crazy to not embrace this opportunity! You could learn so much!".  Suddenly we realized how awesome of an opportunity this was. We emailed John from the ferry on our way back to the island. He was thrilled to hear that we reconsidered and would take the position of helpers / property-sitters. 


We came to the conclusion that if we don't take these little leaps of faith in life, we may never have what we truly desire. Envision the situation you want to be in, follow the signs, and the rest will fall into place. We plan to move in next week. Hopefully the moHo finds a new home soon. We will miss her but we know that she served her purpose and will lead others to great adventures. Now, I need to tweak the title of this blog...no more wheels...for now. 

Stickers we picked up on our USA tour special for the moHo